Published in the Fredericton Daily Gleaner, Monday, August 29, 2011
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Some of the best memories I have of my father are tied to our ongoing conversations about politics.
For as long as I can remember, my father tried to teach me about the ways of the political world. But his teaching was skewed – he had blinders. He was a Conservative. For Dad, it didn’t matter what economic situation the country was in, he didn’t care who the leader was, and he definitely didn’t care who happened to be leading other parties – he was colourblind unless things were Tory blue.
Being the master of ‘challenge,’ I educated myself about the other candidates and leaders so I could challenge him.
The year he was dying of cancer and we had 1,900 kilometres between us, we had some of our best political discussions.
He was bed-ridden in his last months, and would call me often – at work, at home – for him it didn’t matter what I was doing – if a thought popped into his head about something we talked about the day before, he’d pick up the phone. I was ever so grateful for that.
The year was 2000, and we had lots to talk about. This was the year Stockwell Day took over the leadership of the Canadian Alliance Party (post Reform). It was also the year Rick Mercer got overwhelming support in his ‘referendum’ campaign to get Stockwell Day to change his name to Doris – making fun of Day’s proposal for referendum guidelines.
Jean Chrétien called a snap election that year – and in November led his party to yet another victory.
Dad and I had so much to discuss and debate. It was like the political gods shined down on us and knew we needed an interesting political year to close our lifetime of discussions.
I remember some big laughs – my father thought Day looked ridiculous when he arrived at a news conference in a wetsuit, on a JetSki – and sadness … Dad lamenting that he might never see the Conservatives rise again before he died; he felt they were the only ones who could ‘save the country.’
I’m glad he was gone before the election that November. I thought of him every minute of election night.
My father, from an early age, got involved in grassroots campaigns. Even though he often referred to CPAC as his ‘favourite channel’ and his conversations always seemed to gravitate toward federal politics, his passion was municipal politics.
“Municipal politics are the most important.”
He told me this time and time again.
My father worked on municipal campaigns most of his life. He dragged me along for the ride. Since about the age of 12, I would have ‘jobs’ in municipal campaigns in our district of, then, Halifax County. I answered phones, went door to door with candidates, distributed flyers and even did a stint as an election-night monitor when I was 18.
My father had a great respect for people who put their names forward for municipal positions.
I think his respect had a lot to do with why I ran for municipal office in Woodstock.
I also think my father’s passion for all things municipal has a lot to do with my respect for Jack Layton.
He started at the municipal level and connected with more people across this country as a federal leader because of his grassroots experience.
He worked in the political ‘trenches.’
I recently asked a man who was considering a run at provincial politics in this province why he hadn’t tried municipal politics first.
His answer: “Municipal politics is too much of a headache.”
He was referring to being stopped in grocery stores, called at home, and having to make difficult decisions that could upset his neighbours.
I wanted to say to him, “So you’re a coward? Is that it?” but held my tongue because my parents brought me up properly.
Jack wasn’t ‘afraid’ of the trenches. He honed his skills in the perfect place – a place where you have to foster a thick skin – a place where you get to truly know who you represent. A place where you can’t hide.
Maybe that’s why he connected with so many; maybe that’s why people are lamenting what could have been.
I also lament what could have been – but with regard to my Dad. I can envision the amazing and thoughtful discussions I would have had with my father had he lived to see the political coverage of Jack Layton’s death.
My Dad be gone 11 years this September.
Theresa Blackburn is a wife, mother and New Brunswick Community College instructor who lives and writes in Woodstock. You can email her at theresa@mybigfatlife.ca, or join her group, Big Fat Life, on Facebook. You can also follow her on Twitter @MY_BIG_FAT_LIFE